I just bought a book called, “They Fuck You Up. How to survive family life”. It’s written by Oliver James and he pushes the theory that our lives , feelings, personalities are built in the first 6 years of our life.
He says that it is what we learn from 0-6 that determines how fucked up we are in the future.
I heard him interviewed on Triple J the other day and it sounded very interesting.
Hopefully it’s a good read..